He continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines and being a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.A lot of us dream of financial prosperity to be able to help our family or to afford a few luxuries once in a while. Not only is he a husband and a father but also a Filipino motivational speaker who specializes in topics such as personal development, dealing with relationships within family, friends, work and other people and financial management techniques to name a few. He is happily married to his beautiful wife, Nove Ann and living the life with his 3 amazing children.
I hope these three part series was able to enlighten you and give you a better idea on how you can have a HAPPY WIFE AND HAPPY LIFE.Īre you having a hard time saving money? Do you want to know the best ways to save money and how to save money fast? Are you willing to take money saving challenges so that you can manage your finances?īecome an Iponaryo this year and sign-up for Ipon Pa More event here,Ĭhinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines.
This is their way of expressing their resentment and frustration to keep their sanity. When our wife speaks, they are not actually looking for answer. WIFE: “That is what I have been saying at the first place.”ĭon’t you find this situation funny and familiar. HUSBAND: “At the first place, why don’t you say so!” I am not looking for a solution, I just need to express my frustration and just wanted to be heard.” WIFE: “You don’t understand, what I am trying to say, I am tired and exasperated with the situation. HUSBAND: “Again, give him the ultimatum!” WIFE: “You are not listening to what I am saying, I said that my cousin is borrowing money and I am sick and tired of him.” Give him the ultimatum, it is that easy.”
HUSBAND: “You know, you should not be affected by your cousin, just give him the money and tell him that this will be the last time that you are going to help him. I am sick and tired of them pressuring me to help them with their financial situation!” WIFE: “Honey, you know my cousin is borrowing money. There is a tendency for us to shut down immediately and offer solutions.
Specially when the husband come home from work, our wife will download every information that happens within the day. One of the best gift that we can give our wife is a listening ear. This is also one way to show how much you trust your spouse. Isn’t that great, with your wife’s feelings and your experience you can come together with a sound judgement.
That is the reason why whenever my wife speaks, I put importance and weight to her comments because she can feel what I can’t feel. This is what some call as “Woman’s Intuition.” It turned out that she is correct 9 out of 10 times. How many times she warned me about people who seems devious and have character issues. Even my wife is not a graduate of business management but she is sure accurate when she raises her concern about people that I transact with. Sometimes there is tendency for me to assume that my wife only knows only domestic but not business issues. Husband let us be open when our wife speaks. GIVE VALUE AND CONSIDER YOUR WIFE’S OPINION OR SUGGESTION These maybe simple things for your wife but once you do it, then you will learn how to appreciate how complicated it can be. The the role of a chef for a change and prepare breakfast for your wife. If not, take time to take some load by just simply helping in teaching our ids with their studies or homework. While we, the man of the house should take our kids outs and date them. Send your wife to have a time out and go out with her close friends or relatives. Our wife also needs time off from the demands of our over demanding kids and household activities for the day. If you as the bread winner needs sometime off to be in your man cave to recharge from a tiring and stressful day from work. To my fellow husbands, here are some unsolicited advise that might help you strengthen your relationship with your wife:Įverybody needs a break. Because me and my wife Nove believed that learning from other people’s mistakes, especially marriage mistakes and experiences are the best teacher. We sought the counsel of wise and more mature married couples. Things that I am sharing with you here are not based only on my personal experience but these are the things that we have learned from over 15 people that we visited before we got married.